The First Rule of Fight Club

Geplaatst op 28-04-2026

Have you ever seen the movie Fight Flub (what? It was a book?)? If you have then you know that the first rule of Fight Club is You don’t talk about Fight Club. Every member of Fight Club sticks to this rule like its his religion.

Game is kind of like Fight Club.

I have this reader, he’s a great kid – really is – but he’s always emailing me questions about how to respond in certain situations. Invariably the situation is someone says something like, “Girls just want to be treated right.” At which point our enlightened reader steps in to tell them about hypergamy, the female mind and how ovaries work in a tribal system.

He gets laughed at, everyone gangs up on him and tells him he’s wrong, at which point he emails me looking for some sage answer that he can give them that will make them all run along, ashamed they ever assaulted his brilliance. To give an example, this is the most recent email from him (in part, not entirety):

this chick said and I quote ” We don’t want you kissing our toes… We want you to go out of your way to be nice.. or surprise us, or pick us up and carry us around… Make us laugh… That’s what we mean by princess,” Then I said I simply disagree and that you should not treat a girl like a “princess” but with respect and just be a real man but then I got insulted

This isn’t to put the reader down, he’s young (Side note: Negative comments wont be tolerated, so lock that shit up now).

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But because he’s young he has something to prove to someone, or he thinks he knows better – whatever the reason, he doesn’t have the experience and hasn’t learned the life lesson that you shouldn’t go off at the mouth anytime someone says something you know to be wrong.

So what do you do in this situation? When someone says something anti-game that you know is wrong?

Say nothing.

I keep trying to tell this young reader that. Every time he shoots me a “how do I respond” email I always shoot back with, ‘stop responding to them’ because he is needlessly involving himself in discussions he doesn’t need to be in. Here’s the thing about Game and the whole “red pill” lifestyle: Your friends wont understand; your family wont get it; girls buck against it (as is their wont). No one will understand. You have to be initiated to get it, and most people don’t want to be initiated.

So what do you do?

Simply keep your mouth shut. When someone posts a facebook status that says some stupid bullshit like, “S.W.A.G. = She Wants A Gentleman.” all you have to do is not fucking comment. If you’re out with friends and one of them says, “Women just want to be treated like princesses.” all you have to do is keep your fucking mouth shut.

She wont understand if you try and explain game, or use phrases like “alpha” and “beta”. Your friends are too involved in their Nicholas Sparks Love Lie to believe or listen to anything you have to say on the matter of relationships and seduction. So just shut up. Don’t respond. At all.

Lets even take it one step further: If you’re directly confronted about it, lie your ass off. Until you’re at a level with this shit that you know how to explain it in a way to get her wet, or she’s rational and can accept what you’re saying, don’t even bother trying because all you’ll end up doing is shooting yourself in the foot and getting a bunch of random people to gang up on you.

When it comes to game, remember: The First Rule of Fight Club.

Also: Delete your damn facebook, shit is weak.